rathercommon: (not sure what's happening but not good)

[personal profile] rathercommon 2016-01-17 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
[ ...Christ. ]

Maybe something a little less emotionally horrid.
rathercommon: (pensive)

[personal profile] rathercommon 2016-01-17 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Wasn't he ever foolish? Embarrassing?
rathercommon: (explaining you a thing)

[personal profile] rathercommon 2016-01-17 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)
That might be okay. The point of this sort of thing isn't to remember your hatred of him or your anger at him - or at yourself, for that matter. It's to remember that he was wrong. He used his power over you to make you miserable, and that continues to the present day. So...It'd be good to have something to look at to remember: he's powerless now. And he was very wrong.
rathercommon: (sympathetic)

[personal profile] rathercommon 2016-01-17 01:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you do. I mean, and also this isn't meant to be a 'here's what you ought to do to feel better,' because I haven't got any clue if it'll actually help. I just know what I'd do. So if it's totally the wrong thing to do, if you'd sooner just forget about him and everything having to do with him, then don't take this as me pressuring you to take the Kitty Jones Path to Healing A Bit. Cause I don't know anything about the Jesse Pinkman Path, I just know a few nonspecific things about paths.
rathercommon: (chatting)

[personal profile] rathercommon 2016-01-17 01:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure.

Come by my pub for a drink sometime, won't you? It sounds like you're carrying quite a lot of weight. And when that's the case, two things that can help are a pint or a listening ear, and I can provide one or both. As you like. (Alternatively, if you don't drink: tea. That ALWAYS makes things MUCH better.)